I saw my pastor at our harvest festival and went up to him and asked if he signs books as he has written several. He said yes and told me to get with his assistant Mel and Mel will get it to him for signing. I asked "Is Mel your body man?" (like what  president obama has) He looked at me as if I were an odd one and said nooo. and moved on. I found out latter Mel is a lady. And now I fear pastor thinks of me as an odd duck. But then doesn't everybody?